What is the main thing we want most in our life? We want to enjoy it! What is the main thing we do with our lives? We work! We go thru life with to much to do. We go to our jobs, we take care of the family, we fix our homes, mow the yards, weed the gardens, clean the house....the list goes on and on!
I have a small acreage that needs constant work. I don't mind, that's why I bought it, I love being outside, tending my gardens, clearing my land. How often do I actually sit out there and ENJOY it? Not often enough. I walk by and realize how beautiful the flowers are this year or how nice the pasture looks after I mow it, but I don't sit out there, have my coffee or iced tea and just ENJOY! I also own a horse, Missy has been with me for 20 yrs. and we have covered alot of miles together, she's great. Last year I was working three jobs, trying to keep up with the house and the grounds. So, I didn't load my girl up ONE time, not once! Why? I was too busy. Too busy with what, with making money, with working and working.
This Saturday I went out to mow the yard, thinking I had just enough time to mow before I needed to clean up and get to a wedding. Well, a friend of mine came out with her grandson to see just how strawberries come to be. We visited and roamed around the gardens and I realized I hadn't done that in months......just roam around and look and appreciate. Then, just as I began to mow again another friend came by. Someone I had not really visited with for a long time. Initially I felt frustrated, I really needed to get this yard mowed! But, instead we sat and talked until I had to kick him out so I could get ready for the wedding. I went to the wedding, came home and thought..what? You got it, I really should be out there working. I had missed all day! Instead another friend called, my horse riding buddy. She says "let's go riding tomorrow"! Well, of course I had all kind of excuses, I need to mow, need to weed, need to finish the quilt, clean the house, etc. etc.! Then I realized that I keep whining about not having any fun in my life! Sure, part of the fun I want is to enjoy my job more, but what about personal time? Shouldn't that be just as enjoyable. So, I said YES let's go!
We went yesterday and it was worth every minute! Just riding thru the woods, the sweet smell of summer earth. The trees whispering their summer song, the birds and bugs singing to us! It was beautiful and realized how much I had missed it and how free and relaxed I had become. I took the time to stop and smell the horse manure and it was lovely!
All that "work" is still waiting for me, but even that can be more enjoyable. Once I stopped and realized that there will always be work, but we all need to enjoy all those small little stops in the work.........those are what make the work worth it.
The next 20 years.........they need to be fuller of those small stops.......it's not very long, 20 years.
Smelling the roses and the horse manure!
5 years ago